what is happiness

Self-confidence is something very important, 

give yourself more confidence, tell yourself  'I love myself a lot, I am confident'

1. You need to respect yourself first and others can then respect you. I hope the listener can start from loving yourself first, change the phrase used to describe yourself from just 'ordinary' to 'special'.
2. When I look at my parent's picture when I was younger.. in my mind, they'd always look like that, and it's still the same image even up till now. But as I really look into the image or see them in real, I feel that 'it seems like there's more wrinkles and white hair as compared to previously'. But because time is always moving, people are always getting older, so don't always say 'there'll be next time, there'll be next time.' The next time could probably come after a long or short time later... any possibilities. So I hope everyone can cherish the days you have presently, such that at any moment if I can't see my parents, I will not have any regrets, the love I have expressed is more than enough.
3. Our parents still want the best for us, so they'll tell us what to do, but because it's my own life as well, I'll make my own decisions, so any decisions are still the listener's to decide. I suggest you could also listen to your parents' opinions too. Most importantly, do what you want to do, I think it'll be best for you! we can't foresee what will happen in the future too, so most importantly live your life well presently and don't have any regrets.

1. In an adult's world, there'll definitely be times where there are unpleasant things, but I hope everyone still knows that a piece of candy or buying something that you like bring you happiness. Even if your body and mind are busy, you should still let your heart breathe freely.
2. They say that the first impression is the most important, to leave a good impression on someone, you'd only need 7 seconds. However, to change the impression others have of you would probably require a lifetime. Let us hope we're always able to give good impressions of ourselves to others.
3. Self-confidence is something very important, give yourself more confidence, tell yourself 'I love myself a lot, I am confident'.
4. Like what you said earlier, for whatever reasons you need to part ways, I feel it's a pity. But if it has nothing to do with feelings ad you part ways, there are bound to be many of such instances/experiences, I feel that every time you feel very upset (when parting ways), it can get very tiring. It's not that you can't be upset, but take this upset feeling and change it into a new beginning, and bid goodbye with a happy ending.
5. Not only when it comes to love, even in other aspects, like your career where you're met with difficulties, if it's not urgent, you can also put it down first and sleep over it, because once you've slept and wake up your mind will "reset".
6. I think the sequence is the most important, blindly pursuing your dreams is actually nor right. Say probably what you need now is this and this etc. So let's do this first. Even with doing (other) things first, it doesn't mean your dream can't be fulfilled forever. So after doing well on the things you need to do, we can then look at the current situation. Fulfilling our dreams thereafter isn't too late.
7. Putting a little more effort day by day is not for other reasons, but more for the choice, you make in the future to choose your sunny days or even the people you like.
8. There are many things that cannot be changed, e.g. the big environments in our lives, but we can always make changes to our small environment! Just like how we can't decide when the sunrise, we can thereby decide on then to get up!