talking about relationships. today suddenly I really wonder about what my friends think about relationships. so I ask them.
and one of my close friend answers like this, the relationship is something serious, trust, and caring 😇 Someone in a relationship is protecting each other, full filling the missing puzzles, yeah... completing our life. but actually, most of my girl's squad answer it like that. the point is they want a relationship like a fairy-tale. besides that, several of them still think realistic like they want that their future partner can lead her to be a better person, also the others still think about having a rich boyfriend LoL.
honestly, it's such an interesting topic to be discussed in our age (I mean in the early twenties). and I never expected to get such a mature answer for them. but they are answering this question with a marvelous answer. even though I only asked one question, but the answer was 10 replies or more. from that, I can conclude that most of my friends right now want to be in a relationship, LoL. but from that too, I also can open my mind that which I always thought was like why you so weak, evidently she has been suffering a lot all this time. so I was like 'Oh goodness, she's actually stronger than me why did I think a bad thing bout her'. I am totally such as a fool, blaming the other without knowing the truth -_-.
okay back to the topic. so after I asked them that question, I continue it with :
"what is your biggest fear in a relationship?"
most of them said that they scared to be left, being broken heart, or being like they didn't deserve for it. I think this kind of fearlessness is common in our life, especially for a girl. Because we as a girl sometimes we didn't want to take a risk in a relationship. moreover, girls mostly decided something with their feeling. so we are more easily to get hurt. Yeah, even though some of us claim to be strong, but actually, we're weak. and it's okay to be weak because after all, we are the girl. not the boys with their logic-mind.
the last I asked them about :
"what if you partner cheating from you?"
and around 2 or 3 girls answer they will give her boyfriend 2nd chance depends on his reason. tbh when they answer like this I feel like 'whaatt are you fucking seriously???'. then they give me the reason, "I'm not like you, I know I'm fooling when falling in love. but it's me, at least I know how to handle my self with it." and I just 'okay, everyone has their own opinion about that. no judge'. others say they will not give a second chance, because once their partner cheats, forever it will be the same. I fully agree with this. in my opinion, giving trust to others is the most difficult thing. once we give it 100% we must be prepared to face bad things in the future and one day he destroys my trust, I will forgive him but I will not respect him anymore.
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